It might sound a bit outlandish but yes you heard that correct. I have exams in 8 months that i really need to buckle down for, however my girlfriend is not helping. Ive shown this concern many times as im busy 5 days of the week and i need to at least start revision very very soon, if not right now. she is not nearly as busy as i am and shes beginning to distract me from my work and expects me to drop everything for her. I asked my mother about this and she said that my career is what keeps me stable and alive and therefore if im being severely held back then i should end things. i want to stay together with her because she makes me really happy but she needs to understand that i have to study but she keeps just coming over or spam messaging me, demanding attention and therefore i get literally nothing done. i take my studies and my career very seriously and its starting to jeopardise both. how would i go about bringing this up with her?